Sunday, March 6, 2011

5 Things to do when people get angry at you


5 Things to do when people are pissed at you
So I find myself in these situations where people are angry at me or really pissed at me so here are some things that you could do to get yourself out of those uncomfortable situations.  These normally depend on the people who are angry at you. If you try and smile really wide at your friend then he’s going to think you are weird which you soon will be.


Smile
Everyone loves a smile. Whenever people see someone smile then they naturally smile too, I.e. , most of the time. When you smile , make sure you don’t smile too wide , If you do then they are going to think you  are happy at making them angry and walk away.

Crack A Joke
This is the one I prefer and use most of the time. Cracking a joke about the situation or about someone else involved in the situation turns tables in your favor. However, If you are unable to pull a good joke and it is too negative then people are going to think you are weird again which you mustn’t let them think. As you know, Im in school and last week when I hadn’t brought in my Graph Book which was really needed that day, what I did was go straight to the teacher and told him,” I didn’t bring my gruff book” .Again I said ,“GRAFF book”. And he realized that I had said GRAPH book while he was thinking ROUGH book and that cooled him down.

Stamp their feet [NOT RECOMMENDED]
When you know it’s a temporary thing and it is going to go away sooner or later then what’s better than taking advantage of a no-win situation right? This will actually make you feel better but regret a LOT. If you are thinking a way of making them even angrier, this will help.

Apologize
This is something we do first, before anything else.This doesn’t work many a time but it’s worth a shot. However when you apologize you must look straight at their eyes and if they still try to look away go back to step 2.
Walk Away
This is the second best in this list as it gives you control. Just walk away as if nothing happened. If they try to chase you then run. Just lose them for the moment. Give them some time to cool down. This is a good way to calm the other person down.